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Get Ready to Fire Up Your Relationshipby Life Coach Marcie Hunt To understand another is one of life's richest blessings and to be understood by another is perhaps love's sweetest most satisfying gift. Hemingway Each of us in a different place concerning intimate love relationships. We may be in between relationships. We may have broken up with someone and are in a period of loss, exploring, or healing. Many of us are in committed relationships. If you are single, you might want to choose someone close to you, such as a family member, to be your Valentine. It is always heartwarming to send a card to someone you really care about-such as a good friend you haven’t seen for a long time. I have a brother who is not in a love partnership at this time, and I will send him a Valentine Card, just to let him know that he is a special person and that I love him. If you are in relationship transition and desire to meet a compatible partner:
Take classes to find out how to work from the inside/out as well as action steps. You can email Marcie at: marcie@marciehunt.com. I am now creating Finding Your Soulmate teleclasses. If you would like to receive teleclass information about this topic you can email me at any time. There will be written materials, real audio guided imagery sessions, and the teleclass series with each class duration of one hour. Topics include: Letting go of limiting relationship beliefs, emotions, and past patterns-and getting “unstuck.”
If you are already in a relationship, here are Seven ways to increase love and to improve communication with your Valentine: 1. Appreciate the small things. When you tell one another that you appreciate the other person’s affection, or thoughtfulness, it spurs you both on to being more and more giving. 2. Be spontaneous! Life is more exciting when two people surprise one another from time to time. If you find that you are getting in a rut, make a date with your partner. Bring them a small gift or flowers, or take them to a special place for dinner or a romantic spot for coffee and pastries. You can even have an evening at home, with a gourmet dinner, candlelight, and romantic music. Or, it might be as simple as driving to a quiet place to watch the sunset together. 3. Listen to your significant other, or spouse. Communicate in a loving and supportive manner. That means truly listening to their perspective, and allowing them to finish what they wish to say before you speak. It is a good idea to verbalize this method so that both of you are given the compassion and respect to state your views. 4. Talk about your dreams. Too often, we forget to express our hopes, dreams, and goals to our partner after a while. It is so vital to help each other in supporting individual dreams, as well as goals shared as a couple. 5. Commit yourselves to being empowered. Seek self- improvement and personal growth. Respect each person's individual activities. 6. Take time to enjoy life together. Remember, you are best buddies, so it's important to have fun. If your time is limited, make an effort to spend quality time together. 7. Think of each other as spiritual beings.
You are on this life journey together. If you look at each other's innate goodness of heart and soul, your love will be renewed. Focusing on what is good and loving about your partner will help both of you bring out the best in each other. This is especially important as the years go by.
MONTHLY AFFIRMATION: I am deeply connected to the essence of love, beauty, peace, creativity and freedom.
MONTHLY LIFE TECHNIQUE: This is just a simple reminder, not really a technique, to say, "I love you!" So often, we forget to say those simple words that mean so much to those we love.
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