7 Steps On the Path to Clarity
by Life Coach Marcie Hunt
"In the Universe there is an immeasurable
indescribable force which the Shamans call intent,
and absolutely everything that exists in the entire
cosmos is attached to intent by a connecting
link." Carlos Castaneda
All of our deepest intentions are always manifested in
reality. Therefore, it is essential to know that we are
clear about our intentions so that we manifest what
we truly desire.
Perhaps you are
choosing between potential solutions to a question or
to a challenge you are currently experiencing. Maybe
you are feeling confused by a situation, person, or
decision at this time. Or you could be at a major
crossroads in your life and wondering-"Which path
should I take?"
The 7 steps to incorporate: 1. Becoming
silent and receptive 2. Defining the qualities you
desire to experience. 3. Being aware of any inner
resistance 4. The question of contribution 5. How
your decision affects others 6. A technique to check
in with your intuition 7. Asking for inner guidance from
your higher self
Step 1 Inner Silence: Many of you already
have a
habit of going within and
being silent or meditating. For those of you who do
not practice this at all, or infrequently, you will find
that creating silence within is extremely powerful in
achieving clarity.
Letting the mind be silent with no distracting
thoughts creates space. When you allow space
between your thoughts, then you can connect with
inspiration. Inspiration may come at the time you are
silent, or later on. It may be an entirely new set of
thoughts that create just the solution you are looking
for. Or someone could relate a message that provides
you with clarity around your question.
Silence within also brings a sense of peace. Since
stress is often a big factor in most people's lives,
inner serenity plays an important role in helping to
achieve focus and clarity.
There are many ways to enjoy silence through
various forms of meditation. You can practice by
finding a quiet place, sitting comfortably in an upright
position, and closing your eyes. Take three deep
breaths-inhaling peace and exhaling tension. Keep
focused on your breath, and gently let go of any
distracting thoughts. Take five to ten minutes or
longer. With each session, you will find it easier to
have a clear mind and to enjoy your inner serenity.
You create a "receiving" mode for guidance and
inspiration.
Step 2 Understanding the Essence of Your
Desires: It is easy to get wrapped up in
taking "clear" action toward goals in daily life-only to
find that when the goal is realized, it does not afford
us the satisfaction and fulfillment we anticipated.
Focusing on the deeper qualities we want to
experience is a lasting path to happiness.
What are these precious qualities? Several years ago
Laura defined her relationship traits as mutual
love, trust, joy, adventure, compassion, abundance,
passion, and ease and flow in communication. When
she met her soulmate/now husband these essences
were all realized.
When Grace clarified the essences of joy, creativity,
freedom, financial abundance and balance, she received these
qualities in her life with her new part-time job. An
events coordinator for an international company
contributing to culture and education, she was able
to work part-time and still spend quality time withr her husband
and her child.
Do you have a question, path to take, or situation
you would like to clarify? Can you write down the
deeper qualities you would like to receive now?
Step 3 Are you feeling resistance?
One of the ways that helps me to know if I am
experiencing clarity is to check in with my resistance
level. You can do this very easily. First ask yourself
the question you are pondering, or the decision you
are thinking of making.
Now, notice how you feel. Do your sense tension
anywhere in the body? Do your feel anxious, worried,
stressed or angry? Or do you feel light, open, happy
and inspired?
If you feel good, then you can move forward. If you
feel uncomfortable, then you can acknowledge how
you feel and let it go. Your path still needs some
clarity, or perhaps the solution is a question of timing.
Step 4 How does this decision affect others?
This question allows you to make sure that others are
benefited in a positive way by your actions-if others
are involved. For example is this business agreement
mutually beneficial for everyone involved? If you are
a mother deciding to go back to work or to begin a
new career, can you find ways to maintain balance
for your family and for yourself?
These answers are not always evident, so check in
with your "resistance" level to see if your
decision "feels
good." You will always feel at ease when a choice
reflects your true desires- and benefits
others as well.
If you are still feeling confused or conflicted, you may
wish to use the Golden Light Technique.
Close your eyes and imagine the person or persons affected
by your decision bathed in golden light. Send feelings
of caring and love to them. You can also put yourself
into this light and imagine feelings of joy for everyone
involved. This tool helps to lift feelings of confusion
and frustration, as well as enabling forgiveness
through love.
Step 5 How Can I Contribute?
This step considers the higher purpose of your clear
intentions. Can you visualize the result of your
decision? How can you give to others in an uplifting
way? How can your gifts, your passion, your love and
creativity contribute to the well being of your family,
friends, community or the world at large?
All of us are here to contribute. If your decisions
are influenced by your own deep feelings of inspiration, then your
follow-up actions will naturally be inspired
action-as opposed to motivated or forced action.
One quick way to check these principles is to write
on a piece of paper. At the top of the paper in one
column write the question, How Can I Contribute?
In the second column write What Qualities
Inspire Me to Contribute? For example
qualities might include: inspiring others to be
successful, finding innovative solutions to business
challenges, or bringing beauty to the
world. Of course your written responses will
resonate with your true desires, as well as with your
unique gifts and talents.
Intuition Technique
Step 6 Checking Your Intuition:
This technique works well to receive clarity for any
situation-particularly if you are looking at several
possibilities.
Close your eyes and imagine there is a small meter in
front of you. There are numbers ranging from 1-10,
and an indicator that will be used to stop at a particular
number. Now check in with your current feelings of
joy. Imagine your meter stopping at a number. This
will happen automatically. Let's say it stops at 4,
which is a moderate level of joy.
Now ask your self what your level of joy is if you
decide to make this decision, or to take a specific
action. Notice where the indicator stops. If it is much
higher, say 7 and up, this shows positive results. If
the indicator is still low, then the decision is not
going to bring joy in your life. You may ask the same
question using the essences of love or peace, for
example.
Asking for Inner Guidance
Step 7 Asking for Inner Guidance:
Asking your Higher Self, or Soul, for guidance enables
you to receive the highest form of knowledge possible
for whatever decision you choose. Your Soul knows
exactly what your deepest desires are, as well as the
best form for these intentions to manifest for you.
The process of asking the question, being open to
the response, and letting go of the outcome is very
empowering. You gain extra clarity by letting go of
ego control, and you allow ease and freedom because
the Universe guides you without fault!
I hope that these seven steps provide you with
inspiration on your personal path to clarity.
"In the Universe there is an immeasurable
indescribable force which the Shamans call intent,
and absolutely everything that exists in the entire
cosmos is attached to intent by a connecting
link." Carlos Castaneda
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